You can, go and look at your keybindings. I don't see how this is a major issue...

Complete myth, I've shot quite a few suppressed weapons, and really the only one that was "quieter than the action cycling" was the Ruger MKII. Being that it's a .22lr so that's not saying much. Suppressors allow you to shoot without ear-pro, but they're certainly loud enough to understand what it is at a distance.

The female playerbase in ARMA is too small of a minority to justify wasting time and effort that could be spent on more productive things. Voted down. If it's that important to you, mod it in.