Would be a welcome an rounded decision to include female Civilian models with the ability to equip weapons.
As for military apparel, that is an entirely different kettle of fish due to the time and money that would be involved in modifying every single piece of existing kit to fit on the female frame; a noble endeavor but in my opinion does not take precedence over the rest of the game's development.
With the building blocks in place however, I'm sure that the modding community would be more than willing to accommodate this wish aptly (albeit at a later date).