I had my first experience of this last night while i was playing with a group of about 5 or 6 friends.
It seems as some say that it only happens when you're close enough to a certain player but I don't want to play on other servers since it ruins a huge part of the game for me if I can't play with my friends.
I have a 100/10 fiber connection and haven't experienced anything like this in any game including DayZ SA until yesterday so it seems as if it some change ingame is the reason.