ok its simple my character should have gear and should be at POLANA and the other ones (newbie ones) have nothing but what you start with.
about the servers... well it basicly all of them. I connect with different players (newbies) but never with my original character.
Examples of servers: Day z ES (any of them)
ES Infectado2 IP: 93.93.65.139 (this one is the one i always played on and it is the one i was playing when i got disconnected, and then got the error message when tried to conect again.
Thanks.