After playing ARMA Reforger Conflict (player versus player) on official Bohemia servers for several months, I no longer find this game fun.
Eventually, the game leads to frustration and anger, very similar to real life conflicts where everybody loves to fight for money.
If players are not spending all of their time, either 3D building or fighting on the proverbial 3D front lines, the team is certainly destined to loose. Anybody joining, playing simply for fun, will only hinder their teammates from winning.