In arma 3 if you shoot someone in the lower leg or foot enough times they will die. But this is completely unrealistic. You can shoot someone in the leg 100 times in real life and they won't die until they bleed to death.
The game should require damage other than arms or legs for instant deaths, and instead make arm/leg shots deadly through bleeding over time.
the amount of bleeding of a limb can be dependent on how much damage it has taken. So if you shoot someone in the leg with a .50.. the leg should be gone first of all, but it will bleed a lot more than if you shoot it with a pistol.