Also I make it a point to lock my self in rooms when i log so the chance that I died is very low. I just feel like next time if he does come back im just gonna not play with him until something changes because getting killed falling to your death starving etc etc are all acceptable reasons to die and dont usually cause a turmoil vs looting up and not even being able to play with him because idk what server he will load up on if he will even load at all. besides PVT servers i never had to be cautios on server changes. Now it feels like most of my time playing is just serever hopping trying to get my char back or doing research on this whole issue. I just dont see the point of playing if im not even sure ill be able to save my progress. im not a spawn as a bambi grab the nearest weapon and head for elektro player. I like to loot up far off coast which means i have very few player interactions and it sucks to finnally be ready to hit elektro guns-a-blazin and have the server or whatever just swallow my char whole. 2steps forward 5steps back 8hours of my day spent and gone on a char I might not ever see again. Like I said if i got shot i would unserstand but to just lose a char for no real reason is just such a de-motivator to make another char