Dear,

I am interested in renting a server. However, due to the rules, absurd, I gave up existing ...
If I am willing to pay the rent on a server, I want to set my rules ....
I want to be able to ban, I want to play with just my clan, or have VIP seats for some members ...
Do you intend to change the current rules?

DayZ Standalone servers cannot be password protected, it's against the rules at this time.

As for kicking and banning players, you are subject to the following rules:
You are not permitted to ban players for killing yourself or clan members.
You are not permitted to shutdown your server when you're killed.
You are not permitted to shutdown your server when you lose a vehicle.
You are not permitted to kick or ban for smacktalk.
You are not permitted to ban for suspected cheats or exploits, you need solid evidence, IE logs.