I don't know what vehicles you guys are driving but even my old Seat cordoba is able to accelerate faster with the 1st than the vehicles in arma 3. ^^
It's a litte bit annoying when you try to escape with the vehicle from an enemy and you notice that you would be faster on foot...
Also the sound of the engine has a massiv problem. I don't know what it is but I think it is the sync with the speed of the vehicle that is bugged and when you shift from different gears.