1.26 Experimental freezes on server login consistently PLEASE HELP/FIX

My many reports on this blockage keep getting closed with no fix, reply, or advice.

my game only did this after i applied these settings

v- sync: disabled

quality: custom

terrain visibility: very high
Object visibility: very high
Object detail: medium
Texture detail: medium
Shadow detail: medium

texture filtering: medium
terrain surface detail: medium
postprocess antialiasing: medium
hardware antialiasing: low
foliage smoothing: enabled
ambient occlusion: medium
postprocess quality: medium
water reflections: low

and now I cannot get into the game to do anything IT HAS BEEN MULTIPLE EXP UPDATES AND IS STILL HAPPENING MONTHS LATER