When i try to join a server it makes me wait for god only knows how long with it saying "Wait for host" or it will kick me and say "connection failed" i've restarted my computer many times and un-installed and re-installed DayZ i understand the game is in Alpha but that doesn't give it the excuse to screw me over.

thank you for your help, 
                                   sincerely,      RobinHood