So today I rejoined the game, luckily, none of my things have disappeared. Sadly, zombies are wallhacking ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥s, so I was getting attacked before I was even able to load into the game. They should give you some spawn protection for slow loading, if it takes me 40 sec to load into a server I expect to not have to worry about a zombie or for that matter another person clawing me to death.
Next run I finally was able to get all my loot back. Guess what? I logged out for dinner, got back into the server. Lost everything. This is really getting old. Why waste 2 hours getting to a military base and get yourself stocked up to only lose it nexxt time you log in? Why even bother?