On a side note, I typically experience similar when using Microsoft Windows.
One of the main reasons ARMA 3 is an enjoyable game, players are usually, or have an easy choice for, playing against only AI players.
Bug T180134: "ARMA Reforger Conflict no longer Fun" touches on some of the aspects, but really doesn't address the main issue. For example, fixing all of the bugs or providing XYZ feature will not simply/readily make a game fun.