So i recorded. Nothing else to say about it. Maybe someone have the same problem. This never happen before the update. So me and my friend were trying to find a night time server and this is what ended up happening.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2BNsN53P-Y
Server's name - DayZ (Public/Veteran) wdf 24/7 night - Hosted by Regular 114557
http://www.gametracker.com/server_info/108.61.114.11:2302/
http://steamcommunity.com/app/221100/discussions/0/558746089401079275/
there are two hives. regular and hardcore. each creates its own character. you can transfer your character from hardcore to hardcore and from regular to regular. but not from hardcore to regular nor from regular to hardcore.
when you were on the first server you had 3rd person ON (= regular). when you connected to the new one you were in 1st person (= hardcore). I'm guessing your old character is still out there with all your stuff on a properly named REGULAR server. just connect to a REGULAR server and you should be fine.
the one you joined says "veteran" which usually means hardcore. Don't get confused by the "Hosted by .. Regular" (appearantly some text is cut off there and the real Hostname is hidden behind the last word of the line, "Regular")