Basically since the last few patches have came out the game now uses more internet than it did before, when I run a program called Speccy I can see i'm using 100KB/s while playing DayZ compared to 20KB/s which is what a game usually takes.
Now because I don't have very good internet this 100KB/s the game uses causes me really high ping and constant desync to the point where my friends disappear and I can't even play the game.