We game together all the time and when the standalone first came out we could play together fine. After the second or third patch it stopped letting us in the same game. Whenever one of us tries to join the others' game, the person already in game gets timed out, and the person trying to connect never does. We can play fine on separate servers. I can play with my other buddy who plays the game. But my roommate and I just cannot join each others game. It really sucks, cause we play pretty much every (multiplayer) game together, and we're really looking forward to rocking some DayZ..