Hello,
you have some misplaced and obsolete files in your Arma 3 installation. You will have to delete them to make Launcher work again.

These files are not meant to be directly in the game installation folder, they are supposed to be in the Launcher sub-folder, where they are automatically updated:

• config.bin
• Config.json
• log4net.dll
• log4net.txt
• logger.xml
• msvcp120.dll
• msvcr120.dll
• notifyicon-wpf.txt
• protobuf-net.dll
• protobuf-net.txt
• SharedResources.dll
• SteamLayer.dll
• SteamLayerWrap.dll
• Utils.dll
• Xceed.Wpf.Toolkit.dll
• Xceed.Wpf.Toolkit.txt
• cs-cz\
• de-de\
• en-US\
• es-es\
• fr-fr\
• it-it\
• pl-pl\
• pt-br\
• ru-ru\

After that run verify the integrity of game cache through Steam to ensure that all other files are up to date.

I do not understand what you need me to do sorry i am n00b :(

You have to open the folder with the game in Windows Explorer, it's the this one: C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Arma 3

If you find any of the files and folder that I've listed above in that folder, you have to delete them. They don't belong there and that prevents Launcher from running.

After you do that let steam check all files:

1. Open Steam;
2. From the Library, right-click on Arma 3 and select Properties from the menu;
3. On the Local files tab and click the Verify integrity of game cache... button;
4. Steam will verify the game's files and re-download corrupted or missing ones.

Didnt work BiblThump

Could you please upload the latest error log? You've either missed some files or there is another problem.

Arma 3 Launcher Exception Log

Arma 3 Launcher has encountered an unexpected error described below.
Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this on Arma 3 Feedback Tracker (http://feedback.arma3.com). Thanks to you we may fix the issue faster!

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System information

Date: 2016-01-01 16:04:18 / 2016-01-01 11:04:18 -05
Current dir: C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Arma 3
AppData dir: C:\Users\danii\AppData\Local
Command line: "C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Arma 3\arma3launcher.exe" -connect=<192.99.201.183>
Version: 1.3.133.746
CLR version: 4.0.30319.34209
OS Version: 6.3.9600.0 (Microsoft Windows NT 6.3.9600.0)
OS 64 bit: True
Process 64 bit: False
Personal dir: C:\Users\danii\Documents
Culture: en-US
UI Culture: en-US
Point of log: Unhandled Exception

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Exception

System.TypeLoadException: Could not load type 'SharedResources.InstanceAlreadyRunningEventArgs' from assembly 'SharedResources, Version=1.1.128.568, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=null'.

   at Launcher.App..ctor(InitArgs initArgs)
   at Launcher.Program.StartGui(InitArgs param)
   at Launcher.Program.HandleCommandLine()
   at Launcher.Program.RunLauncher()
   at Launcher.Program.Main(String[] args)

Modules and assemblies

• mscorlib, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=b77a5c561934e089; C:\Windows\Microsoft.NET\Framework\v4.0.30319\mscorlib.dll
• arma3launcher, Version=1.3.133.746, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=null; C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Arma 3\arma3launcher.exe
• log4net, Version=1.2.13.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=669e0ddf0bb1aa2a; C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Arma 3\log4net.dll
• System, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=b77a5c561934e089; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_MSIL\System\v4.0_4.0.0.0__b77a5c561934e089\System.dll
• System.Configuration, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=b03f5f7f11d50a3a; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_MSIL\System.Configuration\v4.0_4.0.0.0__b03f5f7f11d50a3a\System.Configuration.dll
• PresentationFramework, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=31bf3856ad364e35; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_MSIL\PresentationFramework\v4.0_4.0.0.0__31bf3856ad364e35\PresentationFramework.dll
• WindowsBase, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=31bf3856ad364e35; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_MSIL\WindowsBase\v4.0_4.0.0.0__31bf3856ad364e35\WindowsBase.dll
• PresentationCore, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=31bf3856ad364e35; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_32\PresentationCore\v4.0_4.0.0.0__31bf3856ad364e35\PresentationCore.dll
• System.Xml, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=b77a5c561934e089; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_MSIL\System.Xml\v4.0_4.0.0.0__b77a5c561934e089\System.Xml.dll
• System.Core, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=b77a5c561934e089; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_MSIL\System.Core\v4.0_4.0.0.0__b77a5c561934e089\System.Core.dll
• SharedResources, Version=1.1.128.568, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=null; C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Arma 3\SharedResources.dll
• System.Xaml, Version=4.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=b77a5c561934e089; C:\Windows\Microsoft.Net\assembly\GAC_MSIL\System.Xaml\v4.0_4.0.0.0__b77a5c561934e089\System.Xaml.dll
• Utils, Version=1.1.128.568, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=null; C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Arma 3\Utils.dll

Assembly resolution

I will go and double check but im sure i got everything

Never Mind i double Check and missed a few things. but now battle eye isnt working ......

Ok, closing as resolved then. For the issue with BattlEye please contact their support http://www.battleye.com/support/ read theirs FAQ http://www.battleye.com/support/faq/ or you can create another ticket here under BattEye category.