I play on a passworded server i rent that only me and my Mrs play on with very minor mods, (full stamina, shorter nights, slight temperature buff is about it) The server has only been active for around 10 days from start.
I was driving an m3s with a lot of inventory loot but no barrels or crates from stary to the coast where we have a starter base, I got most of the way back then got kicked back to the xbox dashboard (I play on series x). From there on, I can't get back into the server. I select the server, enter the password, press ok, and get the 15 second countdown. At 2 seconds left it goes to load screen, then at about 25% loaded it cuts to the main menu character screen but with no writing, dimmed light, and a bit blurry. That is as far as it goes, I've sat on that screen for 20 minutes or more and ended up on it about 15-20 times so far.
I've tried logging out and in obviously, I've tried restarting the server, I've tried restarting my console, I've tried launching then backing out while it's loading then launching again. Nothing will get it past that screen