I wish you would disable this kick, because it is a 15 second death sentence, either from infected, or another player.
Not everyone is geographically capable of finding a server with 30 ping (Aussies, East Asians), so sometimes we have to play with 200, or 300, and it can be totally playable - but DayZ thinks everyone has a 30 ping and anything above is "unstable"
It didn't used to be like this. DayZ used to mind it's own business and not try and nanny you.