I am constantly losing all my gear and spawning fresh as a Bambi. The other bugs in the game, like dying going up ladders, being hit by zombies through walls, etc., I can deal with. I bought this game hoping it had LESS bugs than the MOD. Which I was wrong. But ok, it is in beta.

I'm not asking for my character back, I am simply asking how to prevent this from happening. I paid 30 dollars for this game, and I can accept beta formats, since I was involved in many. Yet, losing my charcter 8/10 times when i log out or when the server restarts is really taking all enjoyment out of the game.

How can I prevent this from happening.
I tried:
-not moving, logging out than back in.
-not moving, exiting game in general, reloading, go to another server/same server
-exiting game when I see ready default
-when I load as a bambi, i dont move and exit out

None of these are working. Can you at least help me by providing information on how this happens. What to avoid, how to log out perfectly, and when i can rejoin. I mean, I have logged out of a server, waited 30 seconds, joined another, and I still get fresh spawn.