here is my startup parameter (I use the vanilla arma 3 launcher):
@CBA_A3;@L_ES;@Blastcore-A3-Phoenix;@Blastcore-Tracers;@Grenade_Hits_Value;@mdh_topdownattack;@Improved_Ragdoll_Physics;@tmr-cso;@status_Hud;@SPCONTROLMOD;@SpeedOfSound_Pure;@Bullet_Hits_Value;@ASDG_Attachments;@ASDG_JointMuzzles;@ASDG_JointRails;@GPNVG-18;@hlcmods_M14;@IanSky_Scope_Mod;@MK18_Mod1;@RH_pdw1.2;@RH_Pistol_pack;@RKSL_attachments;@RQ-11_RAVEN_AB_A3;@STI;@TRYK;@hlcmods_core;@hlcmods_AK;@SMA V1.7;@hlcmods_AR15