astaroth i figured it out in arma i had vsync off in the arma 3 settings which i normally keep off because i let NV Control panel set the vsync to adaptive. this is what was crashing my game. i changed it to use 3d application setting i have not crashed like this since. this needs to be addressed cause im sure im not the only one who uses adaptive.

My card is overclocked from the factory and uses EVGA Precision to use a solid fan profile. Some of the command line stuff i added because i was getting the CTD's ill try to remove them again and see what happens.

also i have no issues with no other games whether it be metro last light, bf3, crysis 3, or benchmarks such as furmark or heaven unique, so i find it hard to believe it is due to any overclocking on my end and not just bad programming on armas end.

Those other files had been purged it seems heres all 3 from my latest crash i will upload them.

first file: http://www.filedropper.com/arma32013-07-1019-35-19
second file: http://www.filedropper.com/arma32013-07-1019-35-19_1
third file: http://www.filedropper.com/arma32013-07-1019-35-19_2

i've never used that service before i was going to use google drive but it wasnt letting me upload properly if those dont work let me know and i will upload them else where.